Being aware of the processes in a marriage can help you realize which you and your partner have reached, helping explain what might seem to be strange in behavior. They can help in your journey to a healthy relationship; you can find 6 relationship stages, as follows:
"OMG, where did you come from? You are perfection!" stage
During this initial stage each partner are hoping to get along and please one another; you both are trying to make things work out. At that stage, neither of you will have seen your respective bad sides since you'll have both showed only your best sides. This is the place where we usually are in love, and see only the best qualities of the partner.
Disappointment stage
At this stage each of you start observing the differences between the two individuals. Conflicts start arising but it surely is often handled fast. Within this stage, the partners either manage this or it will lead to breaking up.
The grinding stage
Partners accept and appreciate each other's weak sides; they don't use force and mentality realize that love brings not only joy to their life, but sometimes it makes them struggle.
The stability stage
Each partner relaxes and affirms that they might never alter the other partner completely. They begin giving each other more love and respect without stressing out about each other's imperfections.
Resurfacing stage
Couples give up to reality and accept that relationships can have their shortcomings too. Here they figure out how to love each other and truly feel their connection. It can be indication that you are both prepared to commit long term together.
The complete trust and love stage
This is actually the final stage; trust becomes unbreakable. Couples start working on projects, and they also turn into strong team; this becomes really obvious to all around them.
Let's say you falter at one of 6 stages.
The most essential thing here is communication. Let your second half speak first without interrupting thus solve out most of your issues at the beginning. You may have to realize that you see variety of things differently. Try to find a method to fully understand this different from yours opinion rather then make an attempt to change your partner and his or her point of view.
Hopefully you'll now understand what stage your relationships are at, and it will help you to find the right solution that take you back to healthy partnership!
"OMG, where did you come from? You are perfection!" stage
During this initial stage each partner are hoping to get along and please one another; you both are trying to make things work out. At that stage, neither of you will have seen your respective bad sides since you'll have both showed only your best sides. This is the place where we usually are in love, and see only the best qualities of the partner.
Disappointment stage
At this stage each of you start observing the differences between the two individuals. Conflicts start arising but it surely is often handled fast. Within this stage, the partners either manage this or it will lead to breaking up.
The grinding stage
Partners accept and appreciate each other's weak sides; they don't use force and mentality realize that love brings not only joy to their life, but sometimes it makes them struggle.
The stability stage
Each partner relaxes and affirms that they might never alter the other partner completely. They begin giving each other more love and respect without stressing out about each other's imperfections.
Resurfacing stage
Couples give up to reality and accept that relationships can have their shortcomings too. Here they figure out how to love each other and truly feel their connection. It can be indication that you are both prepared to commit long term together.
The complete trust and love stage
This is actually the final stage; trust becomes unbreakable. Couples start working on projects, and they also turn into strong team; this becomes really obvious to all around them.
Let's say you falter at one of 6 stages.
The most essential thing here is communication. Let your second half speak first without interrupting thus solve out most of your issues at the beginning. You may have to realize that you see variety of things differently. Try to find a method to fully understand this different from yours opinion rather then make an attempt to change your partner and his or her point of view.
Hopefully you'll now understand what stage your relationships are at, and it will help you to find the right solution that take you back to healthy partnership!
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