Discussing Grandparent Custody For Those Who Need It

By Susan Snyder


You are a grandparent and you want custody over your grandchildren because your boy cannot get his act together and his wife is just as bad. You thought you did good on raising them but it broke your heart when you failed even though you tried so hard. Now, your grandkids are going to suffer the same thing if you do not do something about it. They are going to be deep trouble and their futures are bleak as you watch them under the care of their irresponsible parents. You want to take care of them and ensure their safety and future. So, what do you do? Fight for Grandparent Custody Durham NC.

Let us say you have grandkids and you have determined their mom and dad are taking a trip down divorce town. They have been trying to get it done and it is affecting the kids. You want the right to take them in. So can you? Only if these so called parents will allow you. Else, they will even stop you from ever seeing these children again.

In order for the custody to happen, there are factors to determine to allow it. It can be allowed if the parents are deceased, they are not deemed fit to retain their custody, they agree to let the grandparents have the kids or if said grand people have been living with the children for a year or maybe more.

Here is the thing. You know for sure that these parents are in no way capable of raising children anymore. You see them fight a lot on your visits or when they visit you. You see the way this affects their children. You may fight for the right to get them in court only if you are able to prove it. Also, they will not let you keep them if you cannot even work for a financial status. You shall need to have one first.

Another thing you really hate thinking about is if your daughter, the one without any children but think she can handle anything that is shoved to her, will take up the fight to take her nieces and nephews. You do not want her to do that. She is just as irresponsible as her brother. There is a reason why she keeps jumping from one man to another.

If the dad and the mom are in the middle of a divorce, they might limit your contact with your grandkids. Seeking to reestablish your visitation, you would need to settle any disputes first before taking some sort of legal action for it. Try talking to a third party and have them be a neutral standpoint for this. If nothing else works, then you may petition for an order of visiting.

Thankfully, you present a good case. And if this goes right, everything will go smoothly and the law will let you keep the kids. You love them dearly, those poor little sweethearts. They deserve the world.

In another spectrum, which is the bad side, there are states that restrict such visits. If you live in these such states, you may have trouble keeping your right since they really prioritize the relationship between the parent and the child first.

But, if everything works in your favor and you proved you are way better than the alternative, you can get the kids. Make sure the court sees your point. They will always prioritize kids more than anything.




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