Effects Of Custom On Arab Dating

By Rebecca Bell


Many people develop a certain emotion to an opposite gender. Due to that people want to spend time together. When people get to this stage they create a strong bond. This bond usually leads to a relationship. Custom plays a big part on Arab dating.

Religion is a big part of their character and traditions. Being Muslims they follow religious teaching seriously. This makes sure that any interaction between female and male is of reserved nature. This helps in making them stay away from adultery and other actions that are against their beliefs.

One can get a partner in two ways . One is by suggestion from parents. This does not mean they have to marry a suggested spouse . If they do not like the partner chosen for them they reject such suggestions . Another way is by meeting someone you like and you ask for their hand in NIKHA which is marriage . After this agreement they both inform parents about their decision . This is done so as to ask for blessings.

During these meeting some parents disagree about their relationship due to various reasons which they mention . That means they will not get any blessing. When that happens it is hard to proceed with a NIKHA . If parents do not have any objection they settle on dowry issues. When that is done they start planning for a NIKHA which is a wedding ceremony that takes three days.

Marriage is done as soon as possible . This is to decreases chances of one sinning . Their ceremony takes three days and nights . These is done in two separates rooms . Males gather in one room inside a mosque while females gather at another place. This is done as per Islamic beliefs. In Islam marriage is a religious ceremony that needs respect. The NIKHA should not have music being plaid. This is because music is HARAM in Islam.

Islam encourages simplicity and humbleness. These are why such ceremonies are made small and facilitated in a cheap way. Other rules of Islam apply in this occasions . Music is not used and people must dressing n Islamic way. All that is done because marriage is a holly institution and weddings are service of worship.

Marriage is adored by many people . Everybody in these culture dreams of marrying. This is why people do not build such kind of relationships before marriage. If a girl is involved in such a relationship she might lose her virginity before marriage. When that happens she is likely to miss someone who can marry her.

There is a harsh punishment for unmarried people who are in illicit affairs this include adulterous people. These punishments serves as an example to others making them to wait till they get married.




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