Most of us have been there.
You know, the situation in which your love is being abused. That time when your heart was sinking because someone was taking complete advantage of all that you had to offer and you found it incredibly hard to do anything about it? Yes, that situation.
Although we've all been there and being in this place is the worst, we have to do the one thing that we never really want to do - walk away from the situation.
There's an art to leaving people who have shown you disrespect and don't want to do anything to fix it.
How do you say goodbye to someone without losing yourself, burning bridges, or disrespecting the person across from you? Tough question. But if you lead from your heart and speak your truth you can hardly go wrong.
The middle ground is difficult to find sometimes.
What's the true indicator that you need to walk away from people who don't respect you anymore?
Your heart. Let your heart tell you what to do. The funny thing about our heart is that it usually knows exactly what we need but it's our mind that tends to override all of it. When you dig into your heart you give yourself the best opportunity to take care of yourself and move forward.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This process isn't the easiest thing in the world but it is something you have to learn.
If you don't walk away from toxic people, you will lose yourself in the end and have to deal with the regret of knowing that you had a chance to save yourself all of this heartache.
Have the courage to walk away.
The other art form in all of this is taking people back after they have come back into your life realizing just how much you are worth. This is a time to truly tap into your heart and see if what they are saying and doing really resonates with you. If it doesn't continue down your path and leave them behind. If it does, you might just have another chance at love.
However, it's important to always remember exactly what you are worth and what you are looking for in your life. If you negotiate for anything less, you can really get the bad end of the deal.
If you want a life full of love and brilliance you have to first treat yourself with respect. Without taking care of yourself you will never be able to attract the type of person into your life who respects themselves fully as well.
Never settle for a mediocre life. It's time to level up.
You know, the situation in which your love is being abused. That time when your heart was sinking because someone was taking complete advantage of all that you had to offer and you found it incredibly hard to do anything about it? Yes, that situation.
Although we've all been there and being in this place is the worst, we have to do the one thing that we never really want to do - walk away from the situation.
There's an art to leaving people who have shown you disrespect and don't want to do anything to fix it.
How do you say goodbye to someone without losing yourself, burning bridges, or disrespecting the person across from you? Tough question. But if you lead from your heart and speak your truth you can hardly go wrong.
The middle ground is difficult to find sometimes.
What's the true indicator that you need to walk away from people who don't respect you anymore?
Your heart. Let your heart tell you what to do. The funny thing about our heart is that it usually knows exactly what we need but it's our mind that tends to override all of it. When you dig into your heart you give yourself the best opportunity to take care of yourself and move forward.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This process isn't the easiest thing in the world but it is something you have to learn.
If you don't walk away from toxic people, you will lose yourself in the end and have to deal with the regret of knowing that you had a chance to save yourself all of this heartache.
Have the courage to walk away.
The other art form in all of this is taking people back after they have come back into your life realizing just how much you are worth. This is a time to truly tap into your heart and see if what they are saying and doing really resonates with you. If it doesn't continue down your path and leave them behind. If it does, you might just have another chance at love.
However, it's important to always remember exactly what you are worth and what you are looking for in your life. If you negotiate for anything less, you can really get the bad end of the deal.
If you want a life full of love and brilliance you have to first treat yourself with respect. Without taking care of yourself you will never be able to attract the type of person into your life who respects themselves fully as well.
Never settle for a mediocre life. It's time to level up.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a fearless adventurer, professional life coach and writer. He is on a mission to incite the hearts and minds of those around him and help them live their best lives. Read more of his work at The Better Man Projects and throw yourself into these Life Is Too Short Quotes for some more inspiration and motivation.
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