The Truth About Muslim Matchmaking

By Frances Miller


For Muslims, matchmaking and dating are totally different things because matchmaking is something that is done traditionally and even the families are involved. These days, there are plenty of Muslim matchmaking websites and if you're lucky enough you would be able to find a perfect match for yourself.

Customarily, Muslim families would ask their companions or relatives on the off chance that they know some great families where they could offer their child or little girl. Indeed, even the administrations of a marital offices are enlisted at some point to make the entire procedure simple and bother free.

When you go to a matrimonial agency they will ask you all sorts of questions related to your age, height and other personal details. You will be asked about your education and employment status as well and what type of partner you desire. Based on your answers, they will find a match for you and only if you think its a suitable match, they will arrange your first meeting. This meeting is usually between the families.

Regardless of the possibility that you meet the other individual, the meeting is organized in a controlled domain. You will be permitted to make inquiries on the off chance that you need however typically some other relative will be available there. A few people concentrate more on the profession thing while others seek a decent rehearsing Muslim. Its elusive that immaculate match independent from anyone else along these lines you could approach another person to do that for you.

Your whole family will be involved in the matchmaking process if you do it traditionally. Its pretty different from the dating scene where you meet someone you like and then introduce them to your family. Whereas, in Muslims its totally the opposite because your family will introduce you to your possible future husband and wife. They would also have their say regarding if its a good match or not.

Making an online profile does give you a bit of privacy as you're not discussing each and every detail with your parents. Its kind of a way out from your parents watchful eyes. But, still there is a stigma involved with online matrimony and many people believe its not a safe option because there are lots of fraudsters out there.

There are Muslims who think a bit openly and for them there are Muslim dating websites. With the websites the downside is that there are many fraudulent out there so you cannot trust someone completely. Therefore its better to be safe and opt for options like seeking help from a matrimonial agency because the matches they show you are well scrutinized so you can have your peace of mind.

Muslims don't actually get involved in the dating scene, their main aim is to discover somebody great and get hitched straightaway. Even if there are any engagements done, they are kept short and more concentration is laid on sorting out the wedding. Its ethically wrong to have an intimate relation before getting hitched because there is a considerable measure of significance given to safeguarding yourself and securing yourself for the correct individual who will be your future spouse or husband.




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