What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you actually took some time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that wiped out you, it basically helped in creating you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. However, they really are fantastically rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in one way or another and truthfully there isn't any worse feeling that exists. You're feeling completely horrible for what appears to be an eternity and the deep sensations of loss never seem to depart. As long as we keep playing on the grand field of life, we will suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break occasionally.
But what if, when heartbreak happens, we allow it to show us where we actually must do deep interpersonal work? How will we take the discomfort of loss and be able to create something beautiful with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should try and ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try to take our own discomfort and birth something positive and lovely out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that could make an awesome difference when we are confronted with deep difficulty.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take every bit of that pain deep within and make it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is within you instead of letting it eat you day after day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
What if you actually took some time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that wiped out you, it basically helped in creating you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. However, they really are fantastically rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in one way or another and truthfully there isn't any worse feeling that exists. You're feeling completely horrible for what appears to be an eternity and the deep sensations of loss never seem to depart. As long as we keep playing on the grand field of life, we will suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break occasionally.
But what if, when heartbreak happens, we allow it to show us where we actually must do deep interpersonal work? How will we take the discomfort of loss and be able to create something beautiful with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should try and ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try to take our own discomfort and birth something positive and lovely out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that could make an awesome difference when we are confronted with deep difficulty.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take every bit of that pain deep within and make it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is within you instead of letting it eat you day after day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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