Oh To Love, How Rare That Is

By Evan Sanders


Oh to truly love, how rare that truly is. The things we love in this world last only so long. Yes, it may only be 5 minutes, 5 years, or an entire lifetime, but in the end we eventually part. How truly lucky we are to have something so wonderful at one time that makes the ending of the journey so hard. But for people that love unconditionally...for people who love with their whole heart and understand that we are all sentenced to an end, we stay present with the people we really love. We make that moment last as long as we will because who really knows when those moments will be no more. Our love is the thing that miracles are made from time and time again. Our love is the thing that may really and convincingly change the entire world. We see people all the time fall madly in love with something they are doing, and the world changes around them. We see people who fall completely in love with someone, and their energy, the both of them together as a unit creates something that other people can honestly see and feel.

Love rises above all else.

Love is a type of energy that really cannot be explained.

Words are no match for it. Even if the finest of words are used in the most perfect way, only a scratch is made on really describing what love is. This is why our hearts literally break when love crashes and burns. Recovery appears as distant cousin. We enter into a deep state of loss as the person we were with were actually was our other set of eyes, hands and legs.

Our close friends, our work, our relationships, all can be deeply deeply loved. Not immature "love" but I am talking about the sort of truly deep and incredibly vulnerable love, where you've got no fear in your consciousness about telling that person the worst about yourself, the darkest worries you have kept secret, as you know that love rises above all. You give somebody the tools to totally destroy you down to your core, and you trust them with everything inside of you not to.

Love however, can become a short-lived thing.

And that's how it is designed to be. As humans, we try to keep hold of the good stuff truly as long as we are able to, but frequently the good just runs out and the balance of life takes a dip from what we had. We are supposed to be brought down, so we can in reality, rise again. I have always thought that the one person I actually fell madly in love with, my soulmate, would not just be the one that would be on the up and up with me, but the one who would support me and even help me walk through those dips in life.

The love that I have felt during the past has been wonderful, life changing, incredible, and yet at all the same time passing. Things morph, things change, and as the years have gone by, I have found more paths to appreciate what I had instead of what I lost. I suspect that has been a major turning point for me. My soul opens like a blooming flower every time I give myself the opportunity to experience life. The good and the bad. The strength of an ancient redwood is built into my core and flowers of expertise, passion, and true wisdom bloom through my soul.

We are designed to experience the events we do on the paths we fervently choose.

Hang onto what you can while you have it and deeply love those around you. Cold and hard hearts are for the weak. That is only fear chatting. That is only fear trying to protect the one thing you know that could truly make you 100% exposed. Overt and plain-speaking strength is not strength in any way. It's weakness trying to convince an audience that it is something else.

Vulnerability and a light heart is true strength. The trail permits you to confront even your worst nightmares with keenness and animation.

Love seriously.

Love fervently.

Love vulnerably.

Love with no fear.




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