There's this really fascinating art in walking away from certain people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to respond to you, or simply don't act like you mean much to them. On one hand you need to be close with as many people as you can and you reach out attempting to meets new friends. On the other hand you have got this respect for yourself and pride in how you act. The middle ground is difficult to find on occasion. It is something that I struggle with over and over again. Really, at what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?
I hold myself to a very high standard. A large amount of the time I find myself not wanting to do something but doing it anyhow because I know the other person really deserves that. I'm of the opinion that is what I'd want if the situation was switched around. But I feel a lot of the time people do not do that for me. I don't know if this is just my generation, but it is incredibly popular for people to just not respond to you, not take seconds out of their day to really recognize effort, and just hide. I don't know what it is. I don't understand what makes people do this. Is it an absence of respect? Do you not like me? Do you simply not care?
As I am going through life, things really have become more intense as it seems. I give my heart out to others in a way that I haven't ever been capable of before - and I love that I have started to develop that. But simultaneously I have experienced many angles that are just the grandest turnoffs in the world. I try and find that balance between giving people chances, and deciding to walk away. It feels hard to let people around you go ...especially when there is not any big blowup of any sort.
It seems hard to switch off attempting to bring other people joy. Because that's what it truly whittles down to for me. I try and bring others as much joy as I am able to during the day. I try to make people smile. I try to give them a little leg up, some confidence, some spark to their day that might just make it all that miles better. I do not really expect them to do exactly same for me...but I do look for respect, and if if it's really not there, I don't attempt to convince them...I just move forward and end up leaving.
Finding the balance has been wonderfully hard on my heart these days. But in all seriousness, I know what I have to do. I have to walk away. I need to respect myself enough, the sort of person I am and not really settle for something less than I know what I merit. You have got to know what you are worth. If you really think you are worthwhile, you'll never settle for just anything. Remember, people only treat you certain ways by what you accept from them.
I hold myself to a very high standard. A large amount of the time I find myself not wanting to do something but doing it anyhow because I know the other person really deserves that. I'm of the opinion that is what I'd want if the situation was switched around. But I feel a lot of the time people do not do that for me. I don't know if this is just my generation, but it is incredibly popular for people to just not respond to you, not take seconds out of their day to really recognize effort, and just hide. I don't know what it is. I don't understand what makes people do this. Is it an absence of respect? Do you not like me? Do you simply not care?
As I am going through life, things really have become more intense as it seems. I give my heart out to others in a way that I haven't ever been capable of before - and I love that I have started to develop that. But simultaneously I have experienced many angles that are just the grandest turnoffs in the world. I try and find that balance between giving people chances, and deciding to walk away. It feels hard to let people around you go ...especially when there is not any big blowup of any sort.
It seems hard to switch off attempting to bring other people joy. Because that's what it truly whittles down to for me. I try and bring others as much joy as I am able to during the day. I try to make people smile. I try to give them a little leg up, some confidence, some spark to their day that might just make it all that miles better. I do not really expect them to do exactly same for me...but I do look for respect, and if if it's really not there, I don't attempt to convince them...I just move forward and end up leaving.
Finding the balance has been wonderfully hard on my heart these days. But in all seriousness, I know what I have to do. I have to walk away. I need to respect myself enough, the sort of person I am and not really settle for something less than I know what I merit. You have got to know what you are worth. If you really think you are worthwhile, you'll never settle for just anything. Remember, people only treat you certain ways by what you accept from them.
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Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Need some more content to move foward from your relationship? Try these life goes on quotes.
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